{"id":3174,"date":"2025-10-26T19:57:28","date_gmt":"2025-10-26T19:57:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/onlinedemoserver14.com\/gayle-dillon\/?p=3174"},"modified":"2026-04-23T20:53:40","modified_gmt":"2026-04-23T20:53:40","slug":"the-fourth-sacred-secret-practice-spiritual-right-action","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/onlinedemoserver14.com\/gayle-dillon\/2025\/10\/26\/the-fourth-sacred-secret-practice-spiritual-right-action\/","title":{"rendered":"The Fourth Sacred Secret: Practice Spiritual Right Action"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, what is\u00a0<em>Spiritual Right Action<\/em>?<\/p>\r\n<p>In\u00a0<em>The Four Sacred Secrets<\/em>, Spiritual Right Action \u201cis performed when we\u2019re no longer desperately trying to control the flow of life but, instead, are responding to life as it arises from a powerful state of consciousness.\u201d<\/p>\r\n<p>That, in and of itself, is a powerful spiritual practice.<\/p>\r\n<p>Speaking for myself, the real question becomes:\u00a0<em>Can I give up my doubts, my fears, my monkey mind, and step into the absolute knowingness that I am always connected to that which created all, is all, sees all, and knows all?<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>I\u2019m good at this when life is going well. But when I\u2019m thrown a curveball, I sometimes forget. I want to start controlling people, places, and things \u2014 because in that moment, I evidently think I know more than, as Ernest Holmes so lovingly called it,\u00a0<em>The Thing Itself<\/em>.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>When Life Throws a Curveball<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Recently, as many of you know, our bank account was hacked. By the time I caught it, the hackers had taken over $7,000.<\/p>\r\n<p>I\u2019ll be honest \u2014 I got caught up in the fear, the anger, and the guilt. Yes, guilt. Because as smart as I like to think I am about scammers and hackers, I had let them into my account.<\/p>\r\n<p>It took three long days and a mountain of frustration to finally get fraud tickets issued with my bank. Once that happened, I went from feeling like a victim to just feeling\u2026 numb.<\/p>\r\n<p>On the fourth day, I was pulled out of my funk by an amazing community of people whose energy helped lift me. Then, on the fifth day, I wrote a letter to God. I said:<\/p>\r\n<p>\u201cI know my money that was removed from my account is put back easily and effortlessly, and it is done quickly.\u201d<\/p>\r\n<p>I dissolved my inner conflict and let it go.<\/p>\r\n<p>On day six, all the money was returned to our account.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>What I Learned<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>What I realized \u2014\u00a0<em>finally<\/em>\u00a0\u2014 was that not only had the hackers stolen our money, I had let them steal my peace of mind. I had let them pull me away from my faith and fill me with doubt, fear, and self-recrimination.<\/p>\r\n<p>The truth is, my emotions and my responses to what life throws at me are\u00a0<em>my responsibility<\/em>.<\/p>\r\n<p>I\u2019m not suggesting we avoid our emotions. I\u2019m suggesting we become acutely aware of them \u2014 and then consciously decide whether we\u2019re willing to change how we feel about something.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>How I Return to My Sense of Self<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Here are the steps I use to move through stuck emotions and return to the knowingness of my innate perfection:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li><strong>I let myself feel what I feel.<\/strong>\u00a0I don\u2019t cover it up or mask it. My human self is allowed to express its hurt and pain. But I don\u2019t build a house there and hang pictures on the wall, becoming a permanent victim of the experience.<\/li>\r\n<li><strong>When I\u2019m ready, I choose to heal the feeling.<\/strong>\u00a0Holding on to emotions that don\u2019t serve me keeps me out of the present moment \u2014 and can eventually manifest physically.<\/li>\r\n<li><strong>I journal.<\/strong>\u00a0Getting the story out of my head and onto paper gives it shape and space, rather than letting it run on an endless loop inside me.<\/li>\r\n<li><strong>I reach out for support.<\/strong>\u00a0Sometimes that means a therapist, sometimes a prayer practitioner, sometimes a trusted friend.<\/li>\r\n<li><strong>I talk to God.<\/strong>\u00a0I may write a letter or simply speak out loud, but I always bring it to that Higher Intelligence.<\/li>\r\n<li><strong>I let it go.<\/strong>\u00a0This can be the hardest part. And yet, at some point, I must decide: Is my happiness worth more than staying stuck? So far, the answer has always been YES.<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<p><strong>Why It Matters<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>We can\u2019t create \u2014 or be truly creative \u2014 when we\u2019re in a state of inner conflict.<\/p>\r\n<p>Finding our\u00a0<em>Sense of Self<\/em>\u00a0isn\u2019t just a gift we give ourselves (though that is reason enough). It\u2019s also a gift to the people around us. Our energy matters. The vibration we put into the world makes a difference.<\/p>\r\n<p>So I ask you:<br \/><strong>What impact are you having on your own well-being?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, what is\u00a0Spiritual Right Action? In\u00a0The Four Sacred Secrets, Spiritual Right Action \u201cis performed when we\u2019re no longer desperately trying to control the flow of life but, instead, are responding to life as it arises from a powerful state of consciousness.\u201d That, in and of itself, is a powerful spiritual practice. 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